as the long weekend approaches, i am more and more baffled by my options. the big guy and i have tentatively planned to pick up and go, but he's working till 3 or so tonight, and i have to be back by saturday afternoon for festivities with mfd and mwsm.

we had talked about victoria b.c., but we'd need to be on the 1:45 ferry from port angeles washington which means that we'd have to leave here by 8 am. it would still be a gamble. thus we don't want to make reservations. thanksgiving evening in seattle? hmmm.

the big guy tried to get me to take responsibility for the plans and the contingency plans as is usually my role in our marriage, but i decided last night to watch old movies instead. c'est la vie!

even if we end up making a fort in our living room and pretend it's a fancy hotel i'm sure we will have a lovely time... but i've decided that the decision is not mine. i want to be free of the chains of responsibility of this one. if you have no expectations, you cannot be dissappointed, right?